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writes:hey i had a bf. he was so nice n suit firstly. i loved him more than myself. but than he changed. it seemed like he didnt need me anymore, didnt want to be with me anymore, so i went far away from him. but whenever i remember him tears cum outa my eyes. i want to forget him completely. help me plz!!! i dont want to start a new relationship for some time or may be forever. but i just want to 4get all of the beautiful moments i spend with him. help me plz. Reply to this Question
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (4 December 2009):
 It will take you some time before you forget your ex boyfriend.
Sometimes even when we love someone with all our heart, sometimes they dont feel the same way about us.
This is not your fault.
Right now you need to cry and be sad and have a good friend you can talk to.
Remember things happen for a reason.
In time when you feel ready to live life again start a new hobby you like (such as sports or art).
This hobby will take your mind off your ex boyfriend and allow you to meet new friends.
Dont jump into any relationship until you have dealt with the pain now.
It will take some time but you will be ok.
Hope this helps!
Goodluck
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): It's going to take awhile before you completely get over him, and you may not be ready to start a new relationship right now but there are always more fish in the sea. When you find someone who truly loves you for you you will see that you are better off without this ex of yours. You need to feel all these emotions in order to heal, also hang out with friends a lot when you are having fun you don't ever think about the depressing things in life.
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reader, Tigerlily  +, writes (4 December 2009):
Honey you need to love yourself more than you love a man, or you will never truly have the love of a man. First love is the hardest to get past. Just take care of yourself. Find people that enjoy your company and get out in the world with them. You will love again someday.
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