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writes:My boyfriend and I have a bit of a stale sex life at present, we're going to try experimenting this weekend but could do with some ideas as what to do? Anything interesting you've tried? anything fun? We're pretty open, but have limited access to certain things as he's in uni and still living at home... his mum will be in but once we're in his bedroom we can pretty much do whatever :)Thanks
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (6 December 2009):
 The fact is that there is some limitation to what human sexual activity can include. There are extremes, such as anal, rimming and more with which some people can resort if they wish. Each to their own desires or fetishes if of legal age. The basics work pretty good for perhaps a majority of us. Good (skillful) oral stimulation is plenty for most guys and gals, and we hope that you have had a good weekend so far.
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reader, Emjo +, writes (5 December 2009):
Emjo is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks guys, i thought i'd elaborate a bit,Like i said were pretty open,We've tried quite a lot of positions but we seem to be stuck in a rut, and often some of the more outrageous ones hurt me as he is quite large downstairs.We play with oral stimulation a lot but i think we need something more.I struggle to come a lot of the time and am thinking we defo need more forplay, anyone have any ideas of fun forplay we can try? x
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reader, poetrygoddess +, writes (5 December 2009):
Watch some porn and get some ideas, but nothing too degrading. I even like him to push in and out of my mouth just a bit. Other than that, there's always doing the dishes in lingerie! My boyfriend and I had that fantasy and he said he'd come up and grab my ass and press up against me then sit me down on the counter and...yeah hehe. If you love each other you should feel comfortable u should be able to be nymphos without any guilt! And hey, u can cuddle afterwards! that's always fun!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (5 December 2009):
Not knowing what you have been doing rather leaves open a world of possibilities. There is a variety of positions, and of course, you could introduce some mutual oral stimulation if you haven't already. There are all kinds of foreplay techniques as well. My suggestion is to enter a variety of words in this Web site's search field above, such as foreplay, oral sex, orgasms, clitoral massage, G-spot and more, and read about them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): It all depends what you're willing to experiment with and what you can afford. Maybe something you could experiment with is dress up or roleplaying? Again, it all depends on your taste and how you and your boyfriend personally feel about it. Maybe you could also look at trying out some unique positions with intercourse? You never know, you could end up finding something you both really enjoy ^^
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): Spontaneous sex is always the best! Don't think about it or anything else. If something feels good say it outloud, he gets the ego / confidence boast and you get that insane pleasure. Sex isn't best planned, it's something you do spur of the moment.
Try telling your boyfriend you'd like company doing something boring like laundry and suprise him with sex between cycles ;)
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