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writes: I worked at a theme park in the summer. During my last few weeks there I got to know Chris. He worked in a different department. He asked me to hangout but it was right before I was going away to school so I needed to pack and spend time with family and friends. We've talked on and off since then. He messaged me on Sunday. It was casual and flirty. He want to hangout when I come home for the holidays. I got hurt recently in a relationship. I am nervous to jump into it. How can I make sure he likes me and doesn't think I am just a hookup? Our mutual friend said he is a sweetheart but I am still nervous. I have 2 weeks until I go home. Two weeks to get to know him. Any advice is good. Thanks.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (4 December 2009):
 Well, if you hang out with him, don't let yourself be a hook up. Don't put yourself in that position. If you hang out and make out and say goodnight, he'll think of you as a hook up. But, if you hang out and if he makes the move to make out - make yourself clear. Say, "hey, I like you but I'm not into being just a hookup".
And/or, if he asks to hang out, arrange to do some date-like kind of activity. Go to a movie, go to dinner, something like that. Something that establishes you as a date and not just some easy chick to hook up with. You are worth it!!
Good luck, sweetness!
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