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*ydMonroe
writes:One day he smiles and talks to me, the next day he ignores me. What could it be?About a year ago I noticed this guy in the street, he noticed me too and we smiled at each other. This went on for a while. Then I bumped into him in a coffee shop a while later and we made some flirty small talk which he initiated and introduced ourselves to each other. He laughed at my lame jokes, winked as he left and kept turning around to smile at me as he walked away. We have chatted a few times since then and he's shown up at my work (I work on an open air market) to have brief chats, he also used to walk past my work and wave or smile most days. The last time he showed me positive attention was 2 weeks ago when he walked into the HMV record shop oppersite my work, I saw him walk around a display pick up a dvd on the rack and try to casually look over the top of the stand to look at me in my stall. He saw me looking at him and quickly turned around.For the last 2 weeks he's not come by to chat and as he goes past my stall has looked in the oppersite direction or stares at his phone to avoid eye contact. When I tried to smile and wave at him he saw me and turned away. I think I've played it well and he didn't seem shy, so i'm wondering why on earth he would start ignoring me after all the flirtation. Any idea's why he could be ignoring me after seeming so keen?By the way, he is definitly single and straight.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (13 January 2010):
 Ok.. sorry.. if he's not single, he dosen't fancy you and dosen't want to lead you on.. but I don't think he's single...Other than that.. maybe somebody has been gossiping and he's found out stuff about you that he dosen't like.
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reader, CydMonroe +, writes (5 December 2009):
CydMonroe is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answers so far, and I hope more to come. I am 99% sure on the fact he is single as my work collegue knows him as an aquaintance and last time she saw him he was single, which was fairly recently (she didn't mention she knew me so he doesn't know of this link)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 December 2009):
Maybe he's confused. Guys aren't great at seeing signs. Try talking to him again and see what happens. If nothing comes of it, then move on.,
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reader, Miamine +, writes (5 December 2009):
I don't think he's single.
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