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Why did he lie to me? And why is his ex more important than me?

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Question - (4 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 December 2009)
A female Malaysia age 41-50, *risstin writes:

Hi

Thanks your time.

Dear, I with my BF have been together around 3 years. We are stay together about 2 years, He is a Switzerland guy, and I am Asian girl (Chinese).

I just break up with my BF one month ago. Was 2 weeks before Is my birthday, I call my ex-BF to say thanks for him was few month before he has buy one gift for me and I told him, I will go to get my gift, and I ask him he got a free times going to have a dinner since is my birthday, when we taking a dinner, we have some argue in restaurant because I ask him why you because he can choose his EX-gf to leave me.

And I ask why he already has his ex-gf on his hold life before until now, why he want to in relationship with me and after hurt me , he told me he don’t care. What he wants is to get touch with his ex-gf (Switzerland) not me. He told me his ex-gf is more important than me. And he told me his ex-gf (Switzerland girl) asks him to leave me, so he thinks so. After he ask me back money of my gift and money of USD 55.00, so I told him I have no money and I say the gift you buy for me was before we break up, and for the USD 55.00 is for send a letter fee. And he asks me what about tonight the dinner? And who will pay? And he ask me to pay it, and he just go, and I was very angry too, after I go direct to his home, when I arrive, I ask him to give me one DVD was before I ask him to buy, and he go to get all my cloth and my personal thing and throw all to outside a gate, the time was midnight, I told him, I will come and get when is day time. Because now is late, I was alone here, and I ask please, don’t angry, he just use the leg to kick my stomach and push me hit the gate, And I cry, he just insulting me! Is pain? And he says “fuck you”, and asks me to say sorry to him.

Is this men are crazy mad?

Why he want to lie to me. Actually his hearts still have his ex-GF?

Thank for answer.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (4 December 2009):

He lied to you because he is a liar, and he hurt you because he is seriously in need of psychological help. Yes, he's off his head.

Run a mile, and find a great guy who will love you.

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