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writes:Wanted to know i am working i hve boyfriend i have spoke to my parents abt our relationship but my parents are against our relationship and they r looking for another guy for me and the guy whom i love is not telling any thing to his parents i have a talk with him about it he tells he will tell his parents but when he dont know and i cannot wait for long time i am thinking of getting out of this relation Reply to this Question
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (4 December 2009):
 you could give your bf a choice: tell your parents by a certain date, or you're out to consider your parents' choice for you, because you feel he doesn't value you enough to openly have a relationship with you that his family knows about. why does he want to hide you from them, anyway, have you asked?
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (4 December 2009):
 sigh.. you are indian, your culture different, you are over 20 and your parents expect you to get married. It is not good that your guy is not willing to talk to your parents about you. This is the 21st century, we are in 2009, we can fiy to the moon, things are different now, and even indian parents change. But if your guy is not willing to fight fr you, to tell his parents about you, then your fighting alone. Your parents want to introduce you to more serious guys and maybe if you meet them, you may like one. 2009 baby, you marry who you want. But your culture mean s that your parents have a duty to find the best guy for you, and your boyfriend isn't being a man, he's acting scared like a coward, he sounds like he would make a bad husband. Maybe you should listen to your parents and look over the new guys that they would prefer you to marry... look, only,, not force, you must marry who you want or stay alone.
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