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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hello, Im 13 and in High school. I feel that anything I do, it doesn't make me popular and i want to be popular with boys aswell. After 2 years at HS, i feel it is too late. I wouldnt say Im ugly and I wouldnt say Im big headed... I just speak my mind. What could I do, shall i transform into a girl boys love.. but how? Shall i go for a new look?Please help me.. its putting me down so much. Reply to this Question
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reader, projectwatever  +, writes (5 December 2009):
Don't put yourself down okay. This is coming from a girl who gets chased around but chooses who she wants. It doesn't mean i want everyone because i have a type. Too majority of the boys i'm thought of as mysterious, tan, sporty,funny,smart,pretty and talented ( i grafitt and am an acrylic painter). I think for you to be popular it comes natural, i'm not popular but i'm pretty and kind and mysterious, people like the unknown and i know that anyone who want what they can't have which is everyone, wants what they can't see or touch. LIKE A SURPRISE! Don't chase boys let them come to you. What i have is natural and what you have is natural if you're not popular that's okay you don't have to be,but to be desired you have to be urself and you have to know ur way around men, I will say one thing people like me are dangerous because we can make someone fall in love, but can they ever see us no can they ever touch no because mystery is like running into the abyss, Yoi should only transform urself if u know that you will be decent about it. only date boys u know won't talk about affairs, date boys you know are worth it don't lower ur list of desires in a guy because ur not goodlooking enough, look for more then what you deserve but be wise about choose well, you don't want an idiot with you, also don't date too many people from ur school it builds bad reputation and when you flirt, flirt with dignity,with mystery and with style don't let them touch you but joke around laugh and make them think ur at ease with them and that's usually what a guy wants a decent girl but dangerous, nice but mean that's flirting with dignity and something they can't touch, no sexual contact men like what's hard to get and that's true about majority of the population today as for ur looks improve small things first like ur makeup dont' use too much just a tap to keep , not too much to ur skin except lotions to keep it shiny and smooth to the touch, dont die ur hair cause then ur fake and if u tan then behind ur back you will be called fake bake so be i hope i helped and if u have any more question then i will answer
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): Most men cannot resist 'feminine'. I used to be a bit of a tom-boy and spoke my mind, but when I started wearing feminine clothes and bit my tongue more, I couldn't believe what a difference it made with the guys! Try it for a month :) and don't give up too soon because it will take a little bit for the guys to get used to the change.
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