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writes:Im a 21 year old girl and really sensitive. I ended up having relationships with many guyz just out of depression...but I never loved any of them in real. I was in a relationship with one such guy...and ended up having sex with him. Suddenly, I realized its silly to get depressed and be so sensitive for small reasons...and now I just feel really guilty about having relationships with such guyz that I could never love if I was not in depression. I did have relationships with guys before i got into this depression feeling..but i never felt guilty about them and neither did I have sex before. Can anyone please tell me what should i? Do to forget all these relationships i had during depression and move on living normally?
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reader, Vito  +, writes (5 December 2009):
Look at everything you have done as a learning experience. It is something you had to go through to get to where you are today. Realizing the cause and effect of past deeds is a strength not a weakness. Emotionally it is a great time to follow your passions, take-up a new activity like yoga, musical instrument etc. Simply put your mind at ease by doing something else, maybe something you haven't done before. Focusing on your inner self can always help you guide yourself in the right direction, it just takes time and patience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): You should have never built a relationship with guys that you have never loved from the start. And now you're trying to forget all your past relationships because of the impact they've made. It was wrong for you to do that.
And, what if you get depressed again? What are you going to do?
Do not do anything irrational that you will regret or have to get over with later on.
Do something about your depression. Get some help, find infos on how you can defeat it.
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