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writes:I feel down that I haven't had a girlfriend or intimacy in a while. I've made out with a few girls, but haven't gone all the way with one. I remember a few years back people teased me about this, and I just went nuts on them. I'm still a 23 yr old virgin. I get down thinking of this, and the fact that I haven't found a girl yet. Anyone feel like this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): im a 25yr old virgin, im waiting for the right guy
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): All these other non-virgin guys haven't "found a girl yet" either. They've just screwed a lot of girls who weren't "the girl" for them. And some of them did a lot of lying to make it happen.
Don't overthink virginity. It's not that difficult to lose it if that is really what you're after. Seriously.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): I'm a virgin and i'm 23. I don't feel down at all. In fact, i feel i did the right thing. All these years in college I've been studying like crazy and didn't really have time for a gf. I'm also conservative and wouldn't like to mess with non-virgins in bars/clubs. Most of my friends are like that, too. So, yeah, we're not extinct yet!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): As long as you got other things going on ( personality, cuteness?) i'd say that virgin status is definitely a PLUS! I'M thinking it's a turn on! i would love to deflower a guy, what a role reversal, huh ladies? i wouldn't worry about it, there's a fairly high learning curve for vaginal sex, i mean you just move back and forth, big deal! yea the first couple times might be a one minute thing but if you get a good lady she will train you right! and i'd say oral sex is definitely more of an art, gotta figure out what your lady likes, and she will probably help you with that, or maybe you just haven't had vaginal sex. anyway, i really wouldn't put too much stock into your status, i mean i'd let a girl know, but i think she'll think it's endearing and a fun little conquer!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): I feel your pain brother. I'm 22 and still a virgin.People make fun, and say the worst things about us.The only reason I can role myself out of bed in the morning is because I know when everything is said and done,everybody will get whats coming to them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): I understand feeling down because you haven't found the one. But, coming from a female just a bit older than you, I think it's FANTASTIC that there are men out there who have not done the deed just to do it or because of various kinds of pressures. Do it for the right reasons, and really, listen to your own mind, heart, and conscience, and have your own reasons for what you do. It's your body and your life, and but it's also a body and life that you share with people you choose. So make your decisions for reasons you find compelling. Maybe refocus on other aspects of life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): Whats wrong in being a virgin?????
I hate the fact that people feel down for being a virgin or they ae made to feel bad just because they are a virgin!
Theres nothing wrong with still being pure and waiting for the right person to come along. Its better than losing your virginity to some worthless person who will just use you for sex and then afterwards not want to know you, then you'll feel down trust me!
Start dating, go out with your friends meet new girls get to know them, find out what type of girls your into then decide if your ready for sex with them!!!
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