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writes:I'm 18 but i like guys who are around 25-27 because most of the guys i have been with around my age are total pr*cks who have just used me for sex. However, I find that the older 1s actually want to know ME not my body,is this too much of an age gap tho?? xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010): It's a bit weird people who are 25 trying to date eighteen year olds, it really makes you think, what's so wrong with them that they couldn't get a girl their own age?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010): i can relate to you!! im 19 and my partner is 37!! we work together and never thought anything would happen we are in a secret relationship. he treats me like a princess and would never harm me. i hate guys my age they r so childish and only want one thing iv been in violent relationships already and the guys didnt think they did any wrong if your happy with an older guy and you are of legal consenual age then carry on if it makes you happy then it shouldnt matter what anyone else thinks as long as your not in any danger.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): Im in the same boat as you, and I have no clue what to do either. One of my friends tells me to give up, and forget about it and my other friend tells me, the heart wants what the heart wants...i like to listen to that friend. I mean your an adult, sure you will make mistakes, but they are your grown up mistakes to make. I hope it works out!! ..for both of us lol
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reader, d e e p w i t h i n  +, writes (9 December 2009):
 honestly hun , i thought older guys were supposed to be more mature until recently. i liked my 37 year old teacher and when i graduated he wanted to sleep with me when he knew i liked him. men are men and most of them just want sex. if a guy is respectable, he will get to know you as a person and vice versa. yes guys our age ( i am 19 ) are very immature thats why i am not attracted to them and that is why i like older guys, but most men are dogs. i hope you consider my advice and make sure you get to know a guy really well before you get involved with them.take care !
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (4 December 2009):
 Older men just hide it better.
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reader, BasBond +, writes (4 December 2009):
Hi, At your age this may seem like a large age gap. Give it 20 years and no one would even notice! Most of us guys are stuck in a teenage timewarp so you are probably the more mature one anyway. We all learn from our mistakes as we grow older which is why you are treated better by slightly older men. Be warned though, he may respect you for being who you are but it doesnt mean that he is not into your body as well!! It's just that "everything comes to he that waits".
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reader, bitch  +, writes (4 December 2009):
All guys can use you for sex if you let them. That is the key. Do not get involved with a guy and have sex with them before establishing any kind of a relationship with them. It doesn't matter the guys age really. It matters that you take control of your body and not have sex with just any guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): Don't buy the idea that older = less likely to play you for sex. The older guys who play that game are just more subtle about it than the younger ones.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): No, it's fine. I've been involved with an even bigger age gap, lol
Guys that age can be concerned about you entering college and coming into contact with a lot more guys. They need to believe they are good enough for you.
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