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writes:Hi allI've previously asked for advice on how I can win my ex back and am still trying but find myself confused.We have been apart for nearly six months but recently she has been texting me more and asked me out for a coffee last week. She then asked me to go round to her house for my birthday (she cooked)which I did. I'm getting mixed signals and not sure what to do she kisses me and hugs me tighter than friends do when we say goodbye.She still talks to her parents about what I did just at the weekend which seems odd to me. And even wants to come to my house so I can cook for her.Please help with any advice on how I can make the next step to asking her out again.Thanks in advnace.Alex
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reader, Tigerlily  +, writes (4 December 2009):
You've been trying to win her back? Sounds like you pretty much have. Not sure why she's sending mixed signals but then we don't know the history or why you two broke up. She may want you back but also be wary about being hurt again, or unsure if you really want her.
I'd go with what CaringGuy says and let things progress naturally.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 December 2009):
Well it sounds like she wants you to say something. So I would suggest inviting her around and cooking for her, then asking if she would like to go out with you some time. Tell her that you would like a second chance, and that you will take it slow and really prove that you're worth it.
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