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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and a half, we see each other as much as possible but it's a LD relationship at the moment. He did get drunk and cheated once before therefore I'm always worried. Well while online I told a mutual friend of ours that we were finally doing ok, and she decided to explain how they had a fight and they aren't talking. When I asked for specifics she stopped talking to me for days, and that same night I asked him what the fight was about and he told me 'it's not your business' and 'if you keep questioning it then you wont' have me as a bf anymore'... suspicious much? I got fed up and said it's over, for a couple days after he called me delusional etc, then she told me he said i am a lunatic etc etc... well he claims it was a fight with a friend and that doesn't make it cheating, and that he didn't do anything and was sick of being blamed for cheating when he wasn't doing anything... he didn't talk to me for days finally we talked and he claims her and him haven't talked the whole time, and that he's still upset with me but he didn't do anything... did i go too far by blowing up? advice please
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 December 2009):
Hm, this sounds very suspicious. You asked a female friend and she said nothing, then you asked him and he threatened to leave you.
I don't think you went too far at all. Though you and I know nothing can be proved, it does sound like something happened.
But you know what, you can do better than this guy. He's cheated before, so you know he can't truly be trusted, and to be honest he's acting like a prima donna now. He didn't give any reason, but was quick to deny cheating. Which means something happened, though I don't know what.
My advice is this. You were failed once by him, and now he's failed you again by treating you this way. He could have explained, but he didn't. Surely you can see you can do better than him. Let him go, have nothing more to do with him and find a better guy.
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