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writes:Well, I'd liked this guy for quite some time, and he works at my favourite restaurant. We always talk and joke around when I go in. Tonight, I got my usual order, and (remembering the last time I was in) he gave me an extra pickle with my food. He smiled at me and told me he remembered that I always end up getting another anyway. But when i got up my nerve, and went to give him my number (on the back of a scrap paper), he told me that he wasn't allowed to take anything from the other side of the counter. His co-worker quickly got it from me and snuck it over the counter to my crush. I left soon after w/my friend, who explained that a lot of restaurants have that policy. I can't help but be afraid that he just didn't want my phone number. Or maybe he really was scared to get into trouble. I need help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): Hi, thanks so much for the advice. This was my question. To clarify, neither of us has ever dated anyone, and we know eachother fairly well. I really need some help knowing what to do!
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reader, mnman3487  +, writes (4 December 2009):
 I work at a restaurant, and I've never heard of that policy but it certainly doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Either way, time will tell. You know he has your number now, so if he calls then obviously he doesn't mind having it. A lot of guys are severely lacking in the common sense department (especially when it comes to women), and he could be totally and completely blind to your interest in him. How well do you know him? Do you know for a fact that he's single? His reluctance (if reluctance it was) could very well have nothing to do with you at all.
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reader, Frenzotic +, writes (4 December 2009):
 Hey
Yeah alot of places do have that rule. It can be seen as an unprofessional practice, especially if this happens infront of public eyes.
I think at the end of the day if he rings you it's all good. If he doesn't then don't be disheartened!
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