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writes:Hi guys, right I really need ur help, but I would appreciate it if u wud answer this as if u were me so put urselves in my shoes.Ok basically its about my bf of 3 months, I fancied the pants of him from the moment I saw him then eventually we got together and everything seemed to be perfect for about a month or so. He has always never been good at being subtle about things and has always said exactly what he thinks in his head. Which isn't always a good thing. But now I don't know what to do. He never says "love u" first 2 me when we r on the phone and he always says hes bored when we hang out, also he never kisses me first its always me hu has 2 start it. I am bored with him but I really love/like him and I don't wanna hurt him but I am bored. I find myself flirting with other people and stuff. I dunno what to do and I can't talk to him about it :(please helpxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI broke up with him!!! Thanx guys
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reader, purple_butterfly  +, writes (15 August 2009):
Never love a love that hurts ... :) you know its making you miserable and if this goes on, you will start flirting with people even more. This is just now how a relationship should work. have a talk with him and still if things stay the same, its better to move on than stay there and be hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): Move on. You deserve a guy so much better. It doesnt sound like he likes you, but thats his loss. You can only try so much before you cant do it anymore. If your the only one putting in effort then its not worth it at all. And if you cant talk to him about it then how can you talk to him about anything?
Move on, or have a serious talk to him about this and if he still doesnt seem to act different, then you know what you should do.
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