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female
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30-35,
*abygurll
writes:ok my ex boyfriend is really mean .he is going around telling every one i have a mustache and im fat.and i cry at school and stuff cause everyone makes fun of me and after he says it he ask me back out and i always say yes i dont know why i just cant let go of him.what should i do :) please helpp
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reader, babygurll +, writes (15 August 2009):
babygurll is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks to all of u im gonna try and be strong and tell him every thing you told me to tell him :)
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (14 August 2009):
 Gina,
Nice answer, succinct and to the point. I'm wondering about babygurll's inability to resist his advances.
There are many women out there trapped in abusive relationships, so this is not an unusual situation. Then there is the old attraction to "bad boys" thing. While it is OK to give people second chances, Baby needs to look out for herself first. It is natural for girls to be excited by guys who are rebels or scoundrels. The important thing for baby to know is that she can't make him change his ways by loving him more. His pattern of bad behavior has worked well for him so far.
One other thing, at 13 -15 he can't even grow a moustache himself. Is he jealous? Weird choice for him to torment her with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): This is not on. I think you should go to the school guidance councellor, your family Dr and tell your parents. Yep, all three. If some-one behaves like him, just ignore him because he is just showing himself up. If you are upset, take yourself away from the others and be upset infront of an adult who you feel comfortable with. A school guidance councellor or a family Dr. would be concerned if a school environment is unhealthy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): Its quite simple your ex boyfriend is a manipulative control freak. What do your friends think of you, ask them honestly and if there are things about you that they dont like consider it but dont listen to this guy because he is not your friend. You keep going back to him because even though he says these horrible things he still seems to want you and that makes you feel better for a while.You need to tell him its over, for now and forever, you arent going to be his friend or his girlfriend because frankly he is not a nice person.Thats easier said than done but do you really want to be with a guy who rather than saying personal things to you , will say these things to other people.Be strong, value yourself and kick this idiot to the curb.
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