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*heerwhore23
writes:So there's this guy that I dont know if i like or not.. Its so frustrating.. Like he always wants to do stuff in public like when I hug him he always lifts up my shirt and grabs my ass and I just laugh and move his hand. But when we're alone in his car we just sit there.. I wanna do stuff with him just not around people! I think he gets a feeling that I dont wanna mess around with him cuz I always move his hand and stuff.. So what can I do to like show him that I want to do stuff with him when we're alone? Reply to this Question
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reader, cheerwhore23 +, writes (14 August 2009):
cheerwhore23 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI need advice.. Not people telling me that I'm too young and he's too old.. He's 16 and has a car.. Is that out of the ordinary?? No its not..im 15.. Not 12..I don't want sex.. I'm smart enough not to do that! I just want advice on my question without judging me.. Thanks.
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reader, cheerwhore23 +, writes (14 August 2009):
cheerwhore23 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe's 16 and a junior I'm I sophomore so its fine.. I dont want to have sex with him at all.. I mean he holds my hand and hugs me and stuff when we're at his house but like he's more of a PDA person and I'm not so idk what to do
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (14 August 2009):
First off, if he's got a car then he shouldn't be messing with a young girl like you.
Secondly, if he's all over you in front of people, and not interested when he's alone, then he probably doesn't like you, he's just showing off that he's got his hand up a girl's top.
There is probably some guy he doesn't like and he's trying to make him feel bad.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): Who knows. I don't know enough about him. He could be brooding because he didn't get his own way. He may wish to show you off in a childish manner. He may still be like that at 50 years old. Is he an outspoken sort who strives to get what he wants? If he is, he'd still be making advances. Unless he is cold with anger. Be careful. Since he knows you don't like it, is he still doing it? Anything else he is doing whilst ignoring your concerns, feelings, and request of no? Is he dominating over you? Do his concerns come before yours? Are you safe if you wish to leave this relationship. He wont make you stay will he, by becoming angry and overpowering you and making you? I think find out his feelings. Find out if he is brooding or if he has become shy. Make what you want clear and see how he responds.
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reader, \m/J.D\m/ +, writes (14 August 2009):
 perhaps this guy realizes if he were to make a move on you it would be highly WRONG and ILLEGAL you are not even 16 and your dating a guy old enough to drive with a car? Where are your parents in all of this?
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