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writes:Before you begin to read, I must warn you the following might sound childish, and I may even sound stupid. I just ask you put that aside and just try and help my regardless.I'm fourteen, and almost four months ago, I started dating this boy. It's been amazing since, I mean, there have been there flaws, and things I don't agree with... But, I still really like him. (No, not love. Being as young as I am, I'm still aware of how big of a word love is, and yeah, I know I'm not in love.) His birthday just passed, and I got him a necklace, yeah, he's been wearing it, but before his birthday, I guess I was being a bit of a bitch, just as much as he was being an asshole. We didn't fight directly, but from the looks on our faces when we looked at each other, my friends noted we weren't exactly in a pleasant mood. During his birthday we seemed to forget about that, thankfully. It was an amazing day, too. However, now it's been four days after his birthday, and it just feels like we're straying away from each other.Tonight, on facebook (Oh my! Yes, facebook, everyone's on it now a days, I think, right? Well, facebooks like myspace, just in case you didn't get it.) he wrote in his status (An hour after I wrote something on his wall, which he did not respond to.) "I suppose it's all for the best? Wait, wha'?" I was confused.Now, to be clear, I'm an extremely paranoid person. I take everything way too seriously, and just reading that I only though of the most horrible things of course.Does anyone think that maybe, just maybe he want's to break up with me? Or this my paranoia going out of whack? Advice would be loved. I really like him and I kind of want to keep this going if possible.
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (14 August 2009):
 Hi Hunny
You sound grown up in the way you speak I like this you no certain things :) This is good, Im going to tell you a secret..
Whatever is written on facebook status wise ignore unless it makes you laugh, There are some weird and wonderful people out there who have a different a language to us sometimes and we can and will go way to deap into the meaning when there is NONE!!!! :) Plus hunny another sectret is dont be to there trust me if he misses you he will be the one contacting you..So you pop something strange and funny on your status and keep all your mates giggling...Dont read into it love, Both people need to put effort into being together or wanting to be together...You are both young..Be happy, I hope this helps TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): You are dating at 14 years of age. I am 37 years of age. Often young guys and girls don't know where they are going. He could be still with you, he could take off and try some-one else and come right back, he may not come back. On the positive side, he was with you, so there's some-thing he likes about you. There's more of a chance that if he strays he will be back. By then you may kick him out or watch him try hard to win you over. When I was younger, relationships were pretty unpredictable. Backwards and forwards. Maybe you could send a message, Do you remember when we, and etc to bring up all the good times together and the things you both did agree on. Some-times young people draw the hard lines, this isn't working, so off with its head. Does he look upset or not. And what influence does mum and dad have? Do both of them like you, or just one and they are battling, do your parents like the family? He could be swayed by an adult making the decision. It's normal to have ups and downs with people, neither of you did anything wrong. When you are 35 it is a funny age, men want to settle down with you and you are their universe. The mates come last. And any argument wont deter them. To achieve in career, you need to rely on some-thing else to keep you strong. At 14 there is a lot more to life than boys. You need to actually work and plan to get from a to b. Nothing happens when you do nothing. You could message him and say, hi, studying at the moment and I got tired, but I pulled through because I remember you... or was out running and you were right when... and I really appreciate you, so I ran faster
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