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writes:my boyfriend and i have been together for a long time now. our relationship has been kind of complex. we dated when we were younger for several years. then it ended and he married someone else. through a series of events we got back together after ten years. in a conversation we had i told him that i never got over him. he said he never got over me either. he then said that he would pretend that his ex-wife was me in bed. what does that mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): did he call his ex wife by your name too........
maybe he was fantacising about you while he was married to her. but selfish of him to be married to her in the first place. he just used his wife i am guessing/
maybe he wants to re assure you that his thoughts and emotions were with you while he was doing it with her? are you insecure or jealous of his ex? do you need re assurance and he is just trying to make you feel good, that his ex didnot matter to him?
he married her for a reason. instead of trying to convince you that she meant nothing (which is a lie) he should admit that for a few seasons he was happy with her and then he found you again. when a man tries to justify his relationship with his ex and sarts to make uncanny statements like that he is either trying to bluff himself or his new partner. you say you have have a complex relationship. you left out too much of details so don't know whether he lies well and whether he is full of it. no one forced him to marry his ex. maybe he feels that you expect him to vindicate himself as to why he was with her.
you may have not gotten over him, but he moved on for 10 years. did he have kids with his ex. how recent did you two get back together. was he married when you both met up. just some questions to put things into perspective.
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (14 August 2009):
 Hi Hunny
What he means is when he had sex with his ex he thought of you..simple as that, So he really didnt get over you love XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, lionelhutz +, writes (14 August 2009):
It sounds like he never did get over you and often wished he was with you instead of her.
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