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writes:Ok so it's perfectly fair to play hard to get, it's a real turn on in the bedroom and can make the average romp become a wild night to remember. This is NOT the case when she says it every time you want to do something, holding hands is a prime example or even a simple kiss goodbye.It does just get repetitive quickly and when it comes to the bedroom. She's plays so hard to get i hardly feel in the mood for sex after anyway which isn't really helping the sex life. Sometimes it's like, where is the chase, and how do i cut to it?It is also something of a trap, because if it annoys you, you can't simply say "no i don't anymore" without sparking an argument.I've shown my feelings about this, but it's like an old habit, it keeps coming back..This is only really a thing to see if any men (or women) have had any experiences of anything like this (or do it).All experiences and suggestions are welcome because it's a real pet peave :(xx
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reader, 757PUERTORICAN  +, writes (14 August 2009):
really i had this problem with my ex. we didnt break up because of that so dont worry. but i got tired of it,so i didnt even talk about sex for the longest lol it sucks i know. So after about lets say a month a month in a half she was dieng for it! all i did was laugh cause the tables were turned u play hard to get. You still have to act like normal go hang out and everything and u know kiss her neck/suck on her neck whatever her lil turn on is. But rem. never take it far just kissing and then when shes all rowled up u play it off like u wanna go do something else not in a hurtfull way just randomely stop b4 she starts talking about giving u something or taking ur belt off or hers just stop and say lets go do this lol it work believe me!!!
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (14 August 2009):
 I think your girl doesnt take you so seriously and she thinks its a funny im pretty sure she gets a kick out of it or maybe she likes you to be aggressive.I would say just go without sex for a while it wont kill you you still have two hands put the shoe on the other foot she knows she has the power rte now and your just playing into her game.I can see how that is quite annoying so let her experience it for awhile, but maybe you dont have that much self control. because she might be able to last awhile
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): Maybe you could try some-thing creative where you reel her in and she is chasing you like, picking up a guitar and singing a romantic song so she is all over you. When she has made advances, have you flicked her off? it only needs to be once or twice, and her timing may have been inappropriate. And you may not have noticed. Is she a sensitive person? People run and hug teddy bears. Turn yourself into some-one romantic, maybe. If there is any other signs in the relationship which produce an argument or two, there may be underlying issues to detect and resolve and this could be a sumptom.
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reader, busy04 +, writes (14 August 2009):
 Talk to her, let her know that you think it's cool sometimes, but she takes it overboard at other times. Just Explain to your girlfriend how it makes you feel, tell her what you're telling us.
Wish u the best:)
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