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How can I make things better? My lies are making a mess of our relationship!

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Question - (14 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 August 2009)
A male Canada age 30-35, *ronmaidenmazzocca writes:

So today my girlfriend and I were sitting on the computers. She was at her house and of course me at mine. Were both 16 and we have been in the relationship 6months now. We were sitting just after watching a couple of anime episodes and then she said she wanted to talk to me about something. So ofcourse I ask what and she explains to me that she still doesnt like me talking to my old friend. You see about 4months ago we had sex and then like of course I told one of my "best friends". He ended up talkin about this to so many people my gf found out. She bitched me almost dumped me and I told everyone I was being a douche and lying. Im whipped I know but afterwards I completly stoped talking to my "Best friend". As I said we were on the comp's. and its his birthday so I message him happy birthday of course to be nice and she notices. She didnt have a problem she was just letting me know she wasn't comfortable with me talking to him again and that she just wanted to let me know and that she was looking for reassurance that she was important to me. Well I lied to her and told her I hate him when I dont. Im not fond of him but I just wished him happy birthday, it made me look bad. She got really really upset. What should I do to make things better? Shes gone to bed now but I need help.

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A male reader, ironmaidenmazzocca Canada +, writes (15 August 2009):

ironmaidenmazzocca is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for helping.

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