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Kissing with the tongue and can't get it right

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Question - (14 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 August 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hello, i am a 15 year old girl. ive had a few boyfriends andwe do kiss (but they only stick their tounge in my mouth). recently(yesterday) i had a new boyfriend and i really want to stick my tounge into his mouth and "snog" but my tounge just wont go, he puts his in but i cant put mine in and it doesnt come naturally atal and i just feel really stupid :(:( can some one help me please? 3 xxxx

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (14 August 2009):

Sweetie, teenage boys seem to think that kissing is all about shoving as much of their tongue into your mouth as they can.

It's because their crazy hormones are telling them to stick some part of their body into a girl, so they go for it.

Kissing is an art and you need to practice to get it right so don't expect to be a master with each new guy first time.

Just be gentle and explore his tongue with your tongue. Enjoy it and see what feels good for you and then do the same to him.

Most of all it's about not thinking about it too much, and just closing your eyes and having fun. Kissing is the most amazing feeling.

Even as an adult, you'll find that when a guy is a good kisser, he can make you go dizzy without even touching you with his hands.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009):

Short answer is that every one is different and likes different kissing.

Personally if a girl stuck her tounge in my mouth id wonder what she was at.

A nice kiss in my opinion starts off with the lips just nice kissing slowly, enjoy it as you kiss your mouth will open naturally and it will feel natural to us your tongue to touchthe other person tounge but its a touch as light as you would stroke someones cheek. and for a second then back out, its more about variation between the lips and tounges.

It'll take a while to decide what you like, but its loads of fun finding out :-)

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