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female
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36-40,
*ominique
writes:i met a guy and i really like him but i tend to be shy around people i like and it stops me from being myself and want to be myself because i beleive its workin against me and i dont to loose him what do i do?
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reader, Beau_Gallante  +, writes (14 August 2009):
 Does he know you like him? With me I usually wait until the guy sparks up a conversation with me...thats interesting of course. Or you can spark up a conversation with him, about ANYTHING, it can be about class, clothes or if you two share the same interests or activites you can talk to him about that. As the conversation continues, you will slowly become comfortable and open up to him. Trust me, I sometimes become shy around a guy I like too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): Some-times shy people are raised to be aware of their own behaviours to treat people well. So they've been knocked back a peg or two by their parents. If this is the case view others behaviours and how they act. Are their behaviours acceptable? When you come out of the aware of my own behaviour zone you not only question what they are like which is important, because you need to be treated right, but you will be less thinking of yourself, than inhibiting yourself. Shyness does not stick around forever. It probably got there because parents know best and they usually do. If you break out of the shyness and question their beliefs, you could end up in trouble with your behaviour, as going against theirs because they were right and you never really understood it. It's the strategy they used for you to do the right thing. If he likes you, he wont care.
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