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Do I have to be popular to be happy?

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Question - (14 August 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 August 2009)
A male Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

well i amm 22 m and cant socialise...lately i have entered the world where there are people having $hit loads of friends around me and having a ball! but i am struggling with myself and my personality and just dont have it in me to become popular like other guys...so cant i just be happy in my own simple world with very few friends and just concentrating on my grades ? i feel a bit emotional as in why was only i chosen to live it ? my gf left me recently and i am all alone now thanks to god :-)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2009):

Being popular doesnt make you a better person. I have 4 very close friends who I trust and everyone else is a bonus. Try and meet like-minded people to socialise with (you'll get the hang of it) and please don't change who you are to fit in...

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A male reader, lionelhutz United States +, writes (14 August 2009):

You don't have to do anything you don't want to. All each of us needs to be happy is inside of us already. You just have to find it. Best!

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A female reader, muffy United States +, writes (14 August 2009):

muffy agony auntAlright,I'm in the same boat.I have great friends that aren't the popular type at all.But I'm comfortable and can be myself around them.Then I met some people who are the "Shit" you could say and they have all the fun and everyone just loves them.And it's a big group of them.Well I became friends with them more than my normal friends and it didn't turn out to good.A lot of drama and just things happend.So I met these new people and became friends with them thinking that I was gonnah be happier and liked more but to tell you the truth,I'm a bit more happier with my friends that I've had for many years now.I still have some of the "Shit" people as friends but not super close.

I hope I've helped

Love always,

Muffy

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