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writes:Hey Everyone!..I need Help i have some boy troubles..Okay,so i have been talking to this guy for the past month now,We are really close he tells me everything and i tell him everything too..He lives in America =/ and i live in ireland..Well,one night while we were flirting he said to me.."(name),I think im falling for you"..i thought omg,he actually likes me..And i actually didnt think it was a joke, we talked about it,he seemed liked he likes me more than a friend untill last night,i was talking to him with a friend of mine..and they started saying "Ohh (my name)guess who i am getting married to"..and then the guy i liked said "Yeah,its me,Hey(Friends name) wat do u think i should wear,..And i said clothes just for the laugh,and then i knew he started to think that he knew i was getting jealous so they decided to talk about their "honeymoon"..I was gettin soo upset and annoyed..like i cant beleive he said he liked me then started flirting with my friend..Like when we talked he called me babe,or baby girl stuff like that..I feel used..i asked him does he still like me more than a friend and he said "kinda sort of..Why does it matter?"..I was just like well,id like to knw,Cause so many guys screwed me over and messed with my head so much,id like to knw..All he said was "dont worry about it"..He kept flirting with my friend she knew he liked me and i liked him..Do you think this was a plan set up by the guy that likes me to see if i get jealous or does he not like me anymore..i dnt knw wat to do.. cause i really like him :(Thanks For Your Time..
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (14 August 2009):
Well you've learned the lesson that boys on the internet can say all kinds of things and never mean it because they know that it's not real.
It's just the internet. He's never going to meet you. Why should he be honest and honourable?
He's playing the game because you are just a pen pal.
You can be really close friends with someone online but you can never truly know they aren't lying, you never really know their personality, or their trust worthyness. There is no gut feelings, there is no eye contact.
Flirt away but never take it seriously. Get out and have some fun in the real world!
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): This is common behaviour with teenage boys and girls. They are checking out their own material. You know. How many like me? They are being a bit naughty. It's some-thing many girls and guys are a victim of. They are treating it as a bit of a joke. We all have different characters in this world, and our parents have a large role to play. He did you no damage. You discovered he's not the character you want, and there's always trial and error before finding the right one. That was just him, and he doesn't see it as an intentional hurt. And lots of girls do this too. He's probably a little too self-focused. He's probably got parents where they try to encourage the world revolves for him or her.
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