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writes:Me and my bf broke up about 2 weeks ago. We have had contact since then. He is going to ucsd in about a month and im staying home (about 2 hrs away) to finish my last year of high school. He told me how he thinks that we are a great match for one another, but we are too immature to handle this long relationship right now... and I can somewhat agree. He also told me that when I move to Sand Diego in less than a year that we have a very good possibilty that we can be together. We are in love and we want to be together next year.So is it bad if i wait a year? I really want to, and i do know that anything can happen in a year but right now this is a good thought to have. Any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2009): If this guy loved you he'd stay with you while he was away! Immaturity shouldn't be a reason to break up over a year, basically he's saying "Oh, I'll probably get too caught up in college lifestyle and fool around a bit." Could you handle that next year? Would you knowingly move 2 hours to be with a guy who's probably not going to be too eager to get back with you after you waited for him? I may be being a cynic but if you really loved eachother you'd give it a chance to work long distance. Just remember a lot can change in a year like you said. I'm at university about 2 hours away from my boyfriend at first I was a little worried, but I trust myself and him enough to stay together. However, if you agree with him that you consider yourself too immature then enjoy the year that you're apart and keep your options open. You could meet a knight in shining armour and be swept of your feet, but if you think this is that guy- ask him if he'd consider long distance to see if it works out... Good luck.
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