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writes: theres this guy named Zack :) he and i have known each other for about 3 or 4 years and we're pretty good friends. hes always been there for me. Hes a PK so if i need help he'll give me bible verses and help me. and I used to call him brother because, well, he was like a brother to me. I have always liked him on and off. But when we got back to school, i liked him alot more. and its not because we havent seen each other for a while. Hes cute and all but thats not what i see (unlike most girls). hes funny, sweet, supportive, athletic, weird, dorky, loves music, a christian, everything i am/was looking for. but im not sure if i should tell him and make a fool out of myself. I told him before last year but he didnt feel the same and he went out with this girl (who is now one of my best friends) but they broke up and swore they would never go out with each other again, and they havent. would we be good together?WHAT SHOULD I DO???
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): I assume you are not looking like a sister. You are dressing yourself attractively and into say perfumes and a bit of make-up. He's athletic, so you are a bit sporty too and have some similar interests to joke about. I think you are in a predicament because he has just broken up with your best friend. Shouldn't you be comforting her? If you were to confront him, you would need to deal with this complexity to be understood by your friend and him. Is there no way you can reel him in, by himself becoming attentive. Definitely cut off the brother,sister act.
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