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writes:I have been in a long distance relationship for about a year. We have only seen each other a couple of times but I love him so much and I felt the same. We talk about me moving out there because he cant leave his son. At first I did not like the idea, but Ive learned to live with it and I met him a couple of weeks ago. It was a little awakard but his baby was just too cute to resist. My problem is that ever since I saw him he's been very short with me and I feel like we are back to playing this stupid game. I hate it! He calls me and I ignore him for a while and then I call him and he is short with me. I dont get it??? I asked the other time that he had been very different with me but he only said that he's been very stressed about work ( which is true) but its been like that forever and he was never like this?? I dont feel like asking him again because I dont want to pressure him. But meanwhile im hurting even though i dont show him!!! What do I do now??? Do i just wait or should I ask him again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell just wanted to update my status. I broke it off with him. It was too much to handle. It hurts but I feel like i shouldn't have to settle. I feel free, especially bc, he wasnt willing to make the necessary steps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2009): Your situation seems a bit stuck; I relate it to the fact, that you are "playing games" with each other. Try to communicate your concerns honestly and openly. Otherwise the relationship wouldn't make sense, and is loosing more and more ground due to miscommunication. Your guy has problems. He seems to need emotional support. Give it a try.
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