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writes:My,wife is 50s, 3years younger to me, my son is settled in life, good family. Since 11 years ago, I have been obsessed with a cute widow with grown up 3 kids. Legally she is eligible for marriage. I asked her why dont you get married but she says, is it possible, and it seems no body has proposed so far. She talks nicely but covers her body fully, never gives scope for exposer, truely sentimental. Somehow i am having some pleasure from lookig at her .I am fond of her, she is my dream lady. plz advise me. Can I ask her to marry me illegally, or remain a good friend with just staring at her. Reply to this Question
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (12 October 2008):
 I wonder why you have given up on your marriage? It's lovely to have a fantasy about a widow, but the reality is probably NOT what fantasy has cooked up in your head. I'm sure that she isn't perfect. It's possible that she snores, has stinky feet and an empty bank account, so it's hardly accurate to think that she really IS your dream girl when you are only dreaming about her from afar and truly know nothing about her. If your marriage isn't all that you want, why on earth aren't you asking your WIFE for it? Be very careful what you wish for, you just might get it, and it may come at a far higher price than you are willing to pay, such as the love and respect of your grown children, I'm afraid. Actions always have consequences. You must already realize that you can't marry another woman, because that would be bigamy. What you are proposing, becoming engaged when you are not single, would constitute a breach of promise, and therefore would not be legal. Best of Luck.
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