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writes:What im trying really to understand is why i feel so rotten at the moment, why i cant go on with my life or anything.i dated this girl for over 7 months and she really ment the world to me. gave all the love a girl could ever want.brought her Jewelry like ear rings, chains, lockets wif open up to pictures of us.took her to the opera and out to heaps of dinners and lunchers. made time not only for her and her friends but her family.gave the family anything i could just to help them out. i had plans with her girls for them to pick out a dress and i would buy it. i had planned for flowers to be dropped off at her work. and a was havin a ring designed for over 1 year.like a commitment ring. i lived bot an hour anyways from her but i made sure i was there for her every weekend.i would take time out of work just to be with her.but whats really hrting me is i treated this girl the best and she cant see that. she wanted to end it because a couple of weeks ago i went out with 1 of my mates shopping he was meeting a new girl. anyways i ran into one of her ex's best friend and she was telling me about how she just split with her bf. anyways where walking around and my mate bumped me to say while i was talkin to my ex's friends to say o check out that chick i turned around and said yer shes alrite. i said to my ex's friend look ill meet up wif u and my ex's later. she was full ok. during the day i catch up with my ex's and she was a bit stand offish im like hey bub how are you. i stayed around for about 5 mins but it seemed she didnt want me there while she was with all her girls. i said to her your with your girls ill let you be with them and ill to you later.so i left her cause the last thing you want is your bf round you the hole day while your with your girl friends. anyways the day went buy and i was on the train home and i send her a txt message saying " hey bub how was your day hope you had a great day, i noe i did lvu mwa" anywho get home from the gym around 7 o clock at nite no txt message bak from her so i sent 1 bak sayin u get my txts. she sends me a txt message bak sayin hw there u snob me and my friends today you could of at least rang me to see if i wanted lunch some boyfriend your are. so i rang her back and her dad picked up and his was pissed off his head and his like whos this he keeped asking who it was on the phone and im like wtf its me and he likes i heard you sonbbed my daughter today im like no i was kinda in a rush. anyways she get on the phone she starts ripping into me, O u put your best mate in front of me, u didnt even ring me to say goodbye or see if i wanted to have lunch.she was pretty mad so i said look.you ring me in a couple of days when your ready to talk. she goes you ring me and im like ok no problem then i ask if she still loved me she replyed as cold as anything as a i dont know.she rang me 2 days later tryin to work things out and i could help it but get upset because everyday im telling you shes pissed at me for the littest things, so i lost it. i treated this girl the best i could ever, i mean she got everything 1 day we went out shopping and out of the blue she wants this perfume so i buy it for her cost me $135 but the money not the problem its me feeling heartbroke and feeling like shit now. after i got off the phone with her i was a reck. anyways 5 days go pass havent heard from her and on the 5 day i get a package.witht the dvd i gave to her mum posters of me from my sport,a couple of video i lent her little sister. no jewellry no photos of me no poems, not the mob phone i got her nothing. i sign into my msn last nite and on her nick it has Thing's happen for a reason a little love heart i love andrew another love her andrew smells with a tongue sticking out. its burning me up inside cause i got nothin esle in my life nowim hurting and i dont noe why.i feel like shit everymorningi need help pls asap
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reader, CYPRUSDRGN200x  +, writes (11 October 2008):
it's happened to all of us. myself included. there's no real answer to this question. she just likes the other guy more than she likes you. as much as that hurts to hear. that's the truth. it's happened to me, and bottom lines the bottom line. you obviously care about her, but did you ever ask yourself this: Does she care about you? it really doesnt sound like it. if she really cared she would be with you. find yourself a girl who really cares mate. sounds like you really deserve it.Cheers
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