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My girlfriend's been acting weird since last month, did I handle this the wrong way?

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Question - (11 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Since last month, my girlfriend been acting weird. She no longer has things to talk to me. When we agreed to talk online, she didn't show up and the next day, she didn't tell me what happened.

After some days, she text me, saying she been waiting and ask me to go online. I am wondering why don't she just call instead of going online? I did go online but she doesn't has anything to say at all.

Few days ago, I found out she been talking to other guy. Talking to him things that she used to tell me. Like her working day etc. The problem is, I was there waiting for her so long.

Before I knew her, she enjoys having bfs. She said she likes to keep spare. Because of that, I demand explanation from her. I brought up her past and in the fight, I lost control and called her player for the first time.

She gone mad. She said she didn't meet new guy and that I am over jealous. She told me more about her past that those spares she told me was made up stories, to make herself look strong walking away from her x.

After that, she called it an end because she said I pushed her to tell her past to me and I see her as player just like other peoples.

I felt guilty and confused. Is that I am the meanie here? Or she just put the blame on me to make me feel guilty? What you all think about me? Did I handle it wrongly by demanding an explanation? I know I shouldn't call her player but she admit herself likes to have spare.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008):

She is not that into you

Move on

Find someone else

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