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Relationship dilemma - I don't want to spoil her life with my scare

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Question - (11 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 October 2008)
A male India age 36-40, *id.sharan writes:

Hi,

I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years . earlier it was just friendship and we met online thru a chat site. we have met around 5 times after that face to face and we talk daily. in the past one year our relationship changed the lvel from just friend s to lovers( atleats i feel like that) . we bot are of the same age 24 and i am not that much settled in my career i have a decent job but i want to go for higher education mba and get a decent living standard . Its not liek i don't love her its just that the momnet she has asked for a commitmnet of marriage i am scared of the new responsibility on my shoulders and having sleepless nights . I don't know how to deal with this please help me form a decision. One thing is for sure i won't be having a normal life without her?

what should i do should i tell her to go ahead and leave me and get her life settled for marriage and others ( in india girl as are generally married by the age of 24/25)or shoudl i tell her 2 wait for me .

Please help me

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2008):

hlskitten agony auntI agree with qcumbr1. I know you're not in the Uk but 24 is extremely young to be getting married here anyway.

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