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How do I fix this, I'm falling in love with my hubby's best friend?

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Question - (11 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

How do I fix this, I'm married with 3 children, been with my partner 16 years. I have falling in love with his bestfriend, who has the same feelings, to confuse things I still love my husband, the other man is married as well and loves his wife, shes such a nice woman.

I dont want to cheat how do aviod letting myself get too deep. This is very upsetting, never felt like this before. My husband cheated a few years ago doesnt make it right for me to do the same.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008):

I too am in the same situation, however, I did let it go too far. My best advise for you is to end it now. Once you start to get physical it makes things a whole lot more complicated, especially if there is an amazing connection like there was for me. If you have been married for 16 years then it is obvious that you love your husband and want to stay with him. Don't throw all that away for "uncertainty"

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