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writes:Not sure where to begin and not sure of what kind of advice I'm looking for either. I met a wonderful 'man' online 8 years ago. He was the most caring, thoughtful, sweet and honest person I have ever met. We had a history... a love that was just everlasting. Somewhere along the lines I decided to go with the wrong man and landed on a two year relationship that was the biggest mistake of my life. When I finally go out of it, my platonic love was there with open arms. We spent two dedicated years of loving each other - over the phone and without having met in person. Since then I was so happy, so fulfilled and so in love.. Then comes last night, where a moment changed it all and the love of my life confessed to me that he is really a woman. That image of this man he claimed to be was destroyed.. but not really. That voice, that man.. he is still there. What am I to do? I am in love. I want to love hi.. her? I think I'm going crazy.. Please advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, youloveit  +, writes (14 October 2008):
It shouldn't matter whether she is male or female you fell in love.. it happened now it shouldnt make a difference.. maybe it happend for a reason.. to me to love only men or vice versa is like racism to me.. why would you discriminate agianst who to love.. i say go for it..
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reader, Transcowboy  +, writes (11 October 2008):
 i have been there, i have gone though what you have, but i have been him/her. There are alot of reasons why this person did what they did. I am not trying to condone there actions. if you cant, send me a private messege and i will tell you my story. Just remember somethings the best relationships go though the hardest things
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reader, honeychild4402  +, writes (11 October 2008):
 well i would have told a secret like this waayyyy before two years, but look at it on the bright side....at least she bothered to tell you at all.... also maybe this is a sign that she is ready to meet up so she told you now so you wouldn't get any nasty suprises if you two ever got a bit touchy feely, anyway , just listen to your heart, if you still want to continue then carry on, you're meant to take risks in life, and risking a relationship with a woman is not exactly a bad thing.
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