A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey I have a problem. Well last night me and loads of others went to a party, you know the usual and we had a fair bit to drink before and my best friend especialy who is not used to it was pretty far gone by the time we got there whereas the rest of us were just tipsy. Anyway at this party was my ex boyfriend who I am best friends with hes great. The thing is he still likes me, quite a lot it would seem but we had talked about this party all week and he seemed alright about it. Anyway whilst sitting in the lounge I was with him and asked if he had seen any fit girls but he said no and asked me if I had seen any guys and I said 'well the guy in the corner with the shirt is hot!' and he said 'are you gonna get with him?' and I was like 'Ha Id do him if I had teh chance' which was clearly a joke because serously aunties im not like that! I was just kinda tipsy which yes is my own fault. Anyway we had a laugh and I went off to dance. Later on I came back to find my best friend crying her eyes out and my other friend yelling at me to f*ck off so I was a bit confused but yeah. So later on the other friend comes to find me and tells me (very nicely) that my best friend was in histerics because I had been mean to my ex! (Obviously the comment about the fit guy) so I went to find him and he was fine about everything so I thought it was obviously just a case of the alcohol depressing her so I thought I would just leave it anyway everytime I saw her around she would blank me and make some stupid excuse and I honestly dont get it. I would have thought after 5 hours the drink would have worn off but nope shes still mad over something I have no clue about and I dont feel like calling her because tbh she ruined my whole night. I was in tears because I clearly love my best mate and she just turned on me so suddenly. I have to see her tonight though so im gonna have to think this through how to make friends. I understand she was upset for her friend (my ex, who she barely speaks too) but turning all my other mates against me is just stpid. Sure shes upset but they didnt seem to see she was wasted! Im so het up atm I hate not talking to her and I honestly dont understand at all. I think they were also slightly annoyed because I sat and talked to my ex all night, but with them lot blanking me tbh what else is there to do?! Maybe it seems as if she fancies my ex but honestly I realy dont think so. God im tiered and I realy dont wanna go out with them all tonight but if I dont they will all just bitch about me and majorly ceebs. Ah well see what you make of this situation!Oh I forgot to add I got with some guy in the middle of this, but she didnt know about that and tbh I dont remember it, but when someone kinda told me I just went and apologised to my ex seeing as its better he hears it from me and he was FINE. But honestly its just talking the mick I have no relationship with anyone so its hardly wrong. Ah I guess im mainy to blame.. I dont know im confused... and im rambling now so yeah.. thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah thats the thing.. I dont.
The only person who is a true friend is the ex boyfriend and I think its great we are friends because hes awsome, but we just wernt meant to be, and thats that!
But I go to a all girls school so most of them there are fake and two faced as I have sadly come to realise and its upsetting.
Thanks for the reply :) x
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