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writes:my beautiful girlfriend was hit on by her 75 year old basketball coach in Germany.She is 23 and has been on an exchange now for several months and though I have updated my original question a couple of times (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-girlfriends-75-year-old-coachs-interest-in.html), but I feel i need to ask a new one as he situation has changed.....become worse. This old guy has been making moves on her for about two months which started with general compliments and letting her join the team for free etc to then taking her out with him on "dates' and then having dinner with her. Now I have found out she has been seeing him nearly every night after training and has been going back to his huge mansion where he gives her lingerie to wear, and i have now found out that she has been having dinner with him and letting him kiss her in front of his butler, and also having nude spa baths with him and masturbating him. I feel she has lost sense of reality and she says that he is very gentle and nice and doesn't want anything but is lonely and she thinks she is helping him.I am so frustrated about how far its got and i really should dump her but I know she is just lost over there so far away from home and probably needs company too. But this isn't right is it??? Reply to this Question
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reader, VietLe  +, writes (23 November 2008):
So sorry to hear that but all I can say is that you have made the right decision, I would do the same thing - leave her, Im sure you deserve much better girlfriend. Good luck and take care friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell, to provide an update...She is still consistently seeing this man and has kind of taken the role of the 'trophy' girl whom he parades around for his friends by taking her out to various places and showing her off. She told me last time we spoke that she is happy being with him in this way and when i pressed her she told me that she loves the attention of his old buddies too. I told her i am leaving her and she doesn't seem to mind. She said she has lots of admirers who treat her well, and when i asked her what she meant she told me that this old guy likes to invite his friends around and the 'guys' and her play poker and watch her please her new man.I am sick of her now and will not contact her again i don't think.....
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reader, VietLe +, writes (15 November 2008):
Hi friend,
So sorry to hear such twisted story, it must be hard for you.
I dont think this is a right girl for you. Please keep updating how things are. Hope somehow it will work out well for you.
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (11 October 2008):
 Dump her and let her have her fun with this dirty old man!
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reader, kapowski  +, writes (11 October 2008):
Nope, not right. Kind of out of order.
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