A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hi everyone. im helpless and dont know what to do. well i started work in a bank recently and there's this guy in my office, he says he loves me.h e's so nice to me and everything. But theres a big problem!he's married!! i'm single. this is the 1st time iv ever faced a situation like this. i feel so bad:-( today we went out 4 lunch and a movie,and he kissed me. im trying my best to avoid him but im scared as he's senior to me and im worried that he will harass me in office. i need to put a stop to this,how should i do it? pls help:-(a million thanks in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008): If he is not your boss then give him a warning and if he tries that agian, report him to your boss. But on the other hand if he is your boss, stop the work and believe in God to give you another job.
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reader, bfly36 +, writes (11 October 2008):
Hi, if you continue to see this man, you will probably develop strong feelings for him as he will treat you like gold. However, you will always be last and his wife will be first. Whenever you want him to be available for you he wont because he wont be able to. He will be home with his wife. He will have you like this for years if you let it and you are too young to spend time on a relationship that will go no where. He will even tell you that his relationship with his wife is horrible and he is going to leave her. ALL of it is a lie, he just wants to have sex with you and will leave you
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