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writes:im a female, and i want to send out signals to this guy ive been seeein that i wanna have sex with him without actually saying 'hey lets have sex!' maybe i could touch him a certain way or say something in a text message, i dont know! this question would be intended for the guys to answer as they would know but im open to all suggestions, and dont ask me, how long have i been with him...r u rushing into anything , i would just like some straigtforward answers if thats ok =) thanks xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): Hi
Just get close to him & let the hands do little talking not much & if he is keen he will let his hands talk as well. Nice & slow.
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reader, prof_orr  +, writes (12 October 2008):
 TEXT MESSAGE:
Him - Lets get together Friday night.
You - OK but you have to promise not to screw me.
(Like a farmer, you have planted a seed while not an open invitation, it is definitely going to stick in his mind.)
AFTER A MOVIE WITH A LOVE SCENE:
You - I guess I've lived a sheltered life, like I've seen lots of guys back side in movies but never a real one, like you konw, up front.
Him - Wow, never!
You - No never, but I'm curious, show me yours.
(Say this while standing, face to face, full body contact, hugging and kissing.)
Him - You mean like now!
You - Yeah, I think so.
(That special way of touching him is lightly with one finger, right on the end of his penis.)
You - It's warm.
Him - Yeah, it draws up when it gets cold.
You - It's gettin bigger, what makes it do that?
Him - You touching it.
(Take hold of his penis like you would hold the handle of a tennis raquet.)
You - It's so big. Does it hurt to have sex?
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You will probably hit the bedroom, or sofa, or floor even, but if this does not work, drop the faggot and find another friend boy.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (12 October 2008):
 You say that you have "been seeing" him, which I suppose means that the two of you are dating. So what's the problem? Has he not kissed you? At some point he should be making a move, but if you wish to hasten the matter, respond very passionately to his kiss and embrace. Or go dancing and rub against him the "right" way. Any of that should send the message unless he is frigid or very afraid. Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks!! These are really helpful! Yeah, you're right, girls can do anything these days.. I'll just go for it lol x
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (11 October 2008):
 men + subtly = Huh?
women flirt and are generally suggestive... and are just "playing" and rarely mean it. because they like to have fun and feel naughty without feeling like a slut or a whore.
if you want to bone him. just grab him by the dick and drag him off to a private room or something.
Its That Simple.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008): i think guys would prefer you to just be honest and up front and tell them what you want. In my experience, hints just get missed by guys and then you could end up feeling rejected when actually, he just hasnt realised what you were doing.
Go for it girl, its 2008 and girls can do everything boys do! And more. So dont feel embarrassed or tarty - if you want a straightforward answer from your man, give him a straightforward question!
Good Luck
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