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female
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41-50,
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writes:Hi this is a little bit complicated but here it goes, I have a boyfriend which is very wonderfull with me, he does everything to make me happy, we have strong feelings for each other, but the thing with him is that he is very introverted, so for me it is dificult to know what is he thinking, how does he feels, he is pationate, he is always hugging me and kissing me, but it is extremelly dificult that he talks about his feelings, the only one way that he would talk about his feelings for me is if he feels treathen that I may leave him. Then is when he talks about how much he loves me. He is very shy and he grows up in a family where people doesn't show emotion and his parents never talked to him about sex when he was a teneger, he has date some girls before me, but i am his first real girlfriend, we have been together for 8 months, and again he is perfect, I don't know if I will marry him, I am 27 and I am not looking for marriage now, but I do would like for him to open up a little bit to me, and show me more emotions, someone have any advice? someone has pass for the same thing?
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reader, mikeys toy +, writes (11 October 2008):
I'd just be patient with him, it took me a year to open up to my ex, then I told her everything. I went to being totally shy and had no self esteem to being a clown. That was the confidence she gave to me.
Just show him love, maybe talk about non important things about your day. he may open up more.
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