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writes:first of all hello there my name is Niko im 17 years old and so is my girlfriend, we have been dating for more than 8 months... i know that she is my soulmate... i knwo that i will marry her.. im sure u will say u cant find a sopulmata at 17 years old.. but in my case its an exception... like i cant live without her...its the same story on her side...since quit some time we started makin love.. and a few times without protection... but i NEVER EJACULATED in her vagina so.... to day after school she told me her period was late by a week....and that he breast started to hurt a little... the moment she said taht..i just wentr blank....i think taht there is a pretty good chance that she is pregant...im so confused... one thing is sure.. im not a jerk..i WANT TOBE WIT HER FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE....but iunno why... im not feelign welll... ones my parents find out.. im dead... so is she ones her parents find out... I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO NOW!!! tomrow mornign ill go to her place.. and have the pregnancy test... believe it or not.. right now im criying while ritting this... i cry whenever i see her picture... i cry whenever i talk to her on MSN...I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO... PLEAS HELP...
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reader, arlene88  +, writes (11 October 2008):
If she really was your soulmate you would have no doubts that you would be together but what also is getting to me is that you never come when yous are having sex. If she is pregnant then if you really love her you will support her and i know your parents will be angry at first but at some point they will support you.If you have doubts that you are the father then you really need to talk to your girlfriend or take a DNA test when the baby is born. hope this helps x
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reader, mylonleyself  +, writes (11 October 2008):
 I don't think you are a jerk, but maybe you aren't feeling well because you have come to realize that you guys aren't really ready and mature enough to have a baby. That is what happens when you are irresponsable and don't take the precautions necessary. Well, if she is pregnant both of you should go talk to both her parents and to your parents and explain to them that you love her and you will marry her and take care of the child. I hope everything goes well for you. I have met so many kids that do that and do well in life and some other don't. Good luck.
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reader, howcomehoney  +, writes (11 October 2008):
 Yep, sadly enough the "pulling out" method is ineffective... even if you don't ejaculate inside her, she could still end up pregnant. As you may have found out. First of all, get the test done and find out for sure. This may be a false alarm.Okay, let's say she's pregnant. Are you ready to be a father? You don't sound as if you are. Makes sense. Most people aren't, at 17. You and your girlfriend are going to have to sit down and seriously talk about all your options. Abortion, adoption, raising the child yourselves. This is not something to be taken lightly and you need to go through every possible solution before making your decision, which is something you should do together.Yes, your parents are going to be furious. So are hers. With reason, may I add! Take the test first and then go from there. I'm sorry I can't be of more help.If it's a false alarm, at least you've learnt a valuable lesson about protection. Always, always use a condom!
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