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*ubblygirl
writes:I would like advice on a guy since I'm confused by his actions.The guy in question was with 3 girls at one time throughout the year, and recently decided to get into a new relationship at the end of the summer. They hung out a bit, he met her parents and then she went back to school in another province in September and he stayed here in med school living in residence. He sent her flowers for her birthday and planned to see her during christmas and fly to see her on his spring break, even texting her everyday. However, he hangs out with other girls, still speaks to his ex's and past lovers and he cheated on her a week after she left, never telling her. She broke up with him cause she found out and because she didn't want to do long distance since they barely see each other too.My question is, did he actually care about her? Or did he just want a girl to call his own and have close by?
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reader, honeychild4402  +, writes (11 October 2008):
 why do you care so much....is maybe the 'she' you are talking about..actually you???? i was in a situation like this, it was about a month ago actually, i was seeing this guy who was really sweet, told me he loved me, would stay in touch b4 i went to uni, the weekend i came back i had heard he had slept with someone, he told me he didnt..i belived him. then we broke up and he went and slept with my best friend..im not on speaking terms with her anymore....anyway this aint about me, but my personal opinon is that yea he just wants a girl around, and it seems like whenever he can get some action..he will! fair enough if he just hung out with those girls and his ex, but since you mentioned he dated 3 girls at the same time, and cheated on this girl, then id say yea he just wants a girl around!
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