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writes: My boyfriend and me had sex but for some reason he kept his boxers on. When I tried to pull them down he would jerk away. When I ask him why. He said.Bf: My `thingy`` is too small.me: oh it cant that smallBf: yeah it is nutmeg (thats my nickname)me: Dude you to need got some condfince.Bf: Your becoming a bitc*. me: well YOUR A F***ING JERKThen he didnt say anyting and walk away. Now he wont to talk me at all (again.) What should I do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): Tell him to take offf his boxers
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008): Well you swearing and calling him names isn't going to help, no wonder he isn't speaking to you!! i wouldn't speak to my boyfriend if he spoke to me like that either.Why dont you try speaking to him in a calm manner? and by the way you are way too young to be having sex, having sad that it is too late, but be nice and maybe he might feel comfortable around you.
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reader, ElektraHi  +, writes (11 October 2008):
 Well first of all your to young to be having sex at that age.but sence its to late you should try talking to him ans star by saying babby or watever u want to call him nd then say look i love you and am with you beacuse your the only one in this world that can make me shine like a star..nd i know its kinda corny but it works..nd then say it dosent matter if its ugly or if its tiny am not with you for your package am with you because your the man of my dreams.and then just give him time.he will get more comfterbole with it in time.but dont hurry him and especially dont make fun of him because you might now be having bat times but if you dont handle it good there might be no relationship to worry about so just bgive it time hell come around..oh nd support him
Cynthia
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reader, mylonleyself  +, writes (11 October 2008):
 My boyfriend was shy about him being naked around me, but I tried to be patient and it did work. Just apologize to him and put yourself in his position. If you were shy about lets say your boobs and you didn't want him to play with them, how would you feel if he got upset and started to try harder to take off your bra/shirt and then get upset at you for being shy?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (11 October 2008):
 Well, your boyfriend is shy and insecure - YOU ARE NOT HELPING. By calling him out and getting pissed, you're just enabling his shy behavior.
Apologize to him and let him know that you adore him and just want to have fun with all of him. Tell him that you love him for HIM and that his body is just an added bonus.
You need to make him feel completely comfortable with you. Start off by saying "I'm sorry" and then try your hardest to be the sweetest girlfriend you can be to him until he gets nice and comfortable. Then he'll be whipping off those boxers in no time!
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