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I hate that I love him because he is nasty to me and won't let me follow my dreams! What to do?

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Question - (11 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 October 2008)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend because hes so nasty to me.

But i love him so much when we met i was a mess and he stopped me from doing anything stupid. But now its changed he acts like a real prick and expects me to run after him like a slave if i dont listen to him or do what he wants he lays into me. And when i think of the things i could do with my life if he wasnt weighing me down. I want a career working with big cats he wont even let me follow my dream. I have been with him for so long and i hate the thought of us not being together. But i hate that i love him so much also what can i do. If im with him im down if im not im down i cant win either way im going to be a mess.

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A female reader, bfly36 United States +, writes (11 October 2008):

bfly36 agony auntBeing in a relationship should be a positive thing. Our partner should complement us and we complement him. Eventually two things will happen if you stay in this relationship. Either you will stay and be miserable, or, you will leave, be miserable for a few weeks and pursue your dreams and most likely find a man that cares four u and is not a prick. So its your choice what u do, i hope you make the right decision and that you become a bit selfish.

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