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writes: I've known my friend since the 7th grade,but we didn't really start talking and hanging out a lot until this year(8th).We have every class together except for one. We walk to and from all our classes together everyday.We hang out during lunch and it's so much fun with him. He makes me laugh, he's sweet,he's smart, and he makes me really happy. I've realized a few days ago that I like him more than a friend, and I want to tell him how I feel, but I don't want to ruin our friendship.He tells me a lot of stuff and I can trust him too. Since we hang out a lot, a lot of people tell us that they think we go out, but we don't. And it hurts to hear it because we're not together.One time we were walking down the hall to our class,and he put his arm around me for 3 sec to explain something,and it made me feel really good, and I didn't want him to take it off and it made me feel special. How do I tell him how I feel? I don't want to keep it inside and keep wondering what he would've said if I had asked. Thanks for taking the time to read this and all answers are appreciated.x :) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYum Yum and anonymous,thanks for your answers.I truly appreciate them and will take them to heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008): OhMyGod. I know exactly how you feel. This probably wont make any difference to your situation, but i just wanted to let you know a lot of us feel this way.. me, being one.
Ive known my guy friend since like, year 7 (we were 12), but we only just started talking properly, and trusting Eachother and such, early this year. again, he's smart, witty, really good looking, and just AMAZING in every way possible. he makes me laugh and smile constantly, and were just really close.But now, i feel something i probably shouldnt, for him. I really like him. And apparantly he likes me in more ways than i can imagine too..
so, i told him how i felt. it took a while for me to boost up my confidence to do it, but it paid off.
because, it wasnt awkward, and we both took it really seriously..
basically, my point is, tell him.
it hasnt ruined my friendship with this boy. And im sure it wont kill yours either. i really Hope this helps. coz i hope you dont feel how i felt before finding out all this amazing stuff. it will make you happy in the long run. GOOD LUCK x
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (12 October 2008):
 Hi dear, it looks like that you are very much in love with that boy. You should also put your arm around him or have some kind of physical contact and see his reaction on his face. (but only when you feel the time is right!!). He is also very young which means he could be a bit shy at such a young age. I think you should try and get the message across somehow even if there is a risk at least you will have closure. If you get rejected from him, remember that so many people get often disapointed with the person they truly love. You also should have a lot of confidents in yourself and act as if it was perfectly natural asking him out. good luck!!.
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