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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I fell in love with a guy who 8 years older than me, but that wasn't the problem. We dated off/on for three years. I never open my heart to anyone but I did to him I became comfortable with him. He had two children with two different women. So one day the mother of one his children called and told me he was married to her. Almost imediately he called me and told me to look him up on the internet. I did and wasn't married. But he told me we were never in a relationship yet he'd bring around his friends and say I was his girlfriend. I feel so bad I can hardly get out the bed I feel so stupid cause I thought he loved me like I loved him. I didnt care about the label of being his woman, I just loved being around him. And for him discard like I was trash it just hurt so bad what do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008): I know me saying get over it wont help, but that really is what you have to do, he sounds like you were ok to be his girl friend when he wanted too, well that just isn't good enough, you say you feel stupid!? Why? to me he sounds like the stupid one, you should make yourself yourself up, go out with some friends and just see how many other men there are and how much nicer they would treat you.x
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