How do I forget about the past so I wont ruin my relationship

A female age 36-40, *ari1021 writes:

Hi i need advice. i was in a relationship a year and a half ago where we broke up. he tried still being my friend but he kept lying to me. now we recently got back together because he begged me for another chance.. but he finally admittied to me everything he has done and all the lies he told me and the girls he slept with. i cant get over it just because i has asked him before and he kept lying. when he asked for another chance i asked him again and he attempted to lie again about sleeping around. but i already had found out so he had to confess. i cant get over it. yes i know it was when we broke up but we were still friends. he always asked me who i was with because he was never over me and hell come visit me whenever he came back home and always call but i cant get over his lies. its hurting our relationship. i love him. i always did. always will. but i cant forget about all his lies what should i do? how do i forget about the past so i wont ruin my relationship?

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