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anonymous
writes:I'm dating a younger man, 10 yrs younger. He recently moved to my city with his 2 kids which he has custody of. My kids are teenagers, his are 3 and 4. Several problems here:He is without work and has asked me to buy him lunch or take him to the movies but yet this weekend he left to Tampa with his kids, if he has no money why does he have it to go to Tampa, i did not go with him because it uspset me he does this. Second, whenever he sleeps over, his kids want to sleep in our bed, if hes in his place, he sleeps with them in his bed nightly. Their mom passed 3 months ago and i understand they miss her but then I can't sleep. Third, the sex has gone down since he has the kids, a few times i have wanted it and he says he is too tired, but yet whenever he wants sex, i give it up. Please help!!!!!! Is it worth staying in this relationship????? so many problems and we have only been dating 5 months.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (11 October 2008):
 He's got more things to worry about than getting his leg over. The guys gotta get used to being a full time parent.
On the other hand he shouldn't be asking you to pay for his entertainment either. But you shouldn't be handing the money over. It kinda seems to me that its way too soon for him to even think of dating anyone new at the moment. His children are way more important than you. And his children have lost their mother, of course they want to sleep with their dad!
C xxxxx
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