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We're fighting a lot about my freedom, what should I do?

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Question - (10 March 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 10 March 2008)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My life is so confusing, i'm dating a muslim and im obviously auzzie and he has so many rules no talking to guys at ALL!! i have to wear what he says i'm not allowed out of the house unless its with him. we're always fighting over the tiniest things. i dont no what to do please help me

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008):

I would be very surprised if you are an appropriate girlfriend for him, long term anyway. The cultural and spiritual values between your life and his are VAST.

You need to understand that this is always going to cause you and he problems. Unless you choose to become a Muslim, you will never be anything more than you are at the moment, with all of the differences. So at your young age, this would be a huge decision which you are not fully educated in. So my opinion is to leave this behind you and have a far less stressful boyfriend.

I will be very interested following this post to see if there are any Muslim men who could help you out with more understanding on just how different your lives are and will be in the future!

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A male reader, Uncle Trev United Kingdom +, writes (10 March 2008):

Dump this evil bully and do your best to have him deported if he is not an Australian National. Animals like this do not deserve to live in the free world.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (10 March 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntYIKES, Yikes, yikes! Runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (10 March 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntDo you want to be controlled like a sheep?

Do you value your personal freedom?

Do you want your spirit to be free?

Then why do you want him for?

Love is happiness and if it is painful,

then it is not true love.

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