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writes:What, to you, constitutes "lackluster" sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, Gena Bullock +, writes (13 March 2008):
 Him just ejaculating after 1/2 dozen strokes and rolling over asking "Was it as good for you as it was for me?"
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reader, tux +, writes (13 March 2008):
 The "deadfish" "starfish" syndrome.. bluh.. always leads to stopping asking "what am i doing wrong?" which pretty much ends it. Moan.. tell me how you like it.. yes I get turned on majorly by that.. :) I think a good reason girls complain about men not pleasing them is because they don't tell us anything and expect us to know where there buttons are. Not every girl has the same buttons.. You may think that since your body is similar that you'd have same spots to hit, but that's not true. I haven't even been with a lot of girls and they differed. Some could only get pleasure by penetration, others needed more.. but tell us! :)
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reader, xapathyxrebornx  +, writes (11 March 2008):
 hmmm well from a woman's point of view probs not initiating anything really...that can be annoying, it's nice to be seduced. x
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (11 March 2008):
 For a woman ( going on my wife's opinion ) no foreplay , girls love oral. Then if penetration is a simple wham bam bam then a few minutes later cumming.
From a man's perspective the ultimate nightmare is what we guys call the starfish. I have had only two starfish's in my time ( when I was only young so hopefully they improved with age ) and with no movement , no sound . By just lying there taking it not making even the slightest movement has to be only a little bit better than masturbation - just. My very worst experience came with a girl who had a lovely body was very attractive , we had had a passionate makeout session but when we got into the bedroom, she just stared up at the ceiling and didnt move, it didnt make it any better than she could have fitted an oceanliner into her vagina, so not only didnt she move I couldnt feel anything!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): no such thing...be grateful you get sex at all.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (10 March 2008):
 Ha! I figure more women will chime in on this one than men, but from a man's point of view, at least some of us feel about the same. My answers would include: a woman who just lays there (dead fish syndrome), no imagination, little desire, no passion, too quiet, same routine, no adventure, no variety and a woman who never initiates activity.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 March 2008):
 "Brace yourself Effie!"
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (10 March 2008):
 No imagination!
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (10 March 2008):
 no passion, too quiet, no foreplay!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): Husband falling asleep during the foreplay! No, not mine but i have known someone say their hubby did it to them. Lackluster for me would be doing the same position every time. I like a bit of variety.
take care
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