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I have fallen in love with this guy but it's awkward!

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Question - (10 March 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have fallen in love with this guy but it's awkward!

We have been really good friends for 5 years and I have felt something for him over the past two years but never thought much about it or told anyone that is until my best friend got off with him and I got jealous and broke friends with her (but I have told her why and we've sorted that out). I sent him a valentines card anonymously and I can't stop thinking about him but we live 2 miles away from each other and I only see him in the summer. Also we are from two different worlds as he is rich and goes to an all boys boarding school and I'm working class (but not poor) and go to a public school is this a problem?

What should I do? Should I forget him and move on or should I tell him and hope it doesn't ruin our friendship?

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A female reader, peaches83 United Kingdom +, writes (8 April 2008):

peaches83 agony auntWell thats good to hear. Hope it all works out for you both :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

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I was with him this weekend and i found out he feels the same way and we are now together thanks for the help =) ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008):

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i don't think it will completely break our friendship just 'weird it out a little' and we won't really know what to say to each other, it happened the last time i told 1 of my guy friends that i liked him more than a friend

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A female reader, peaches83 United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2008):

peaches83 agony auntTell him, if he decided taht he doesnt want any relations with you and decideds to also break the friendship off then to be honest it wasnt a true friendship.

Honesty and trust are major issues in any relationship.

You may be surprised at the out come but you will never know until you try.

The fact that you are from 'different worlds' as you put it really doesnt matter any more in this day and age.

People are starting to see people for who they are nad not the material values.

Good luck

Peaches

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