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Trouble getting "hard". Is this common?

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Question - (10 March 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I had trouble getting hard with my girlfriend totally out of the blue whilst we were fooling around.

This has never happened before should I be worried?

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A female reader, Gena Bullock United States +, writes (13 March 2008):

Gena Bullock agony auntMaybe you're thinking to much about it when you're in the middle of things. Relax and have her put more foreplay into the moment. That should smooth things over......

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (13 March 2008):

tux agony auntI wouldn't worry too much. Stress and nerves can be a big downer and sex turnoff. You just need to relax a bit and breathe.

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A female reader, Basschick Australia +, writes (10 March 2008):

Basschick agony auntNah, don't stress out about it because the more you obsess, the worst it gets. Just relax and think sexy thoughts. It'll happen okay.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (10 March 2008):

DoubleM agony auntIt happens, but should not happen very often at your age. On rare occasions, it make happen for one or more of several reasons, such as fatigue, nervousness, discomfort, stress, intoxication or just some little thing less obvious. Sometimes it might happen with a new girl for the first time, but if it happens often, then you might worry a bit. Otherwise, don't worry.

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A female reader, shoe_lover United Kingdom +, writes (10 March 2008):

shoe_lover agony aunthappens all the time!!!! trust me some times your mind in the mood but your body has other thoughts!!!

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