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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I had trouble getting hard with my girlfriend totally out of the blue whilst we were fooling around. This has never happened before should I be worried? Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, Gena Bullock +, writes (13 March 2008):
Maybe you're thinking to much about it when you're in the middle of things. Relax and have her put more foreplay into the moment. That should smooth things over......
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male
reader, tux +, writes (13 March 2008):
I wouldn't worry too much. Stress and nerves can be a big downer and sex turnoff. You just need to relax a bit and breathe.
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A
female
reader, Basschick +, writes (10 March 2008):
Nah, don't stress out about it because the more you obsess, the worst it gets. Just relax and think sexy thoughts. It'll happen okay.
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male
reader, DoubleM +, writes (10 March 2008):
It happens, but should not happen very often at your age. On rare occasions, it make happen for one or more of several reasons, such as fatigue, nervousness, discomfort, stress, intoxication or just some little thing less obvious. Sometimes it might happen with a new girl for the first time, but if it happens often, then you might worry a bit. Otherwise, don't worry.
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female
reader, shoe_lover +, writes (10 March 2008):
happens all the time!!!! trust me some times your mind in the mood but your body has other thoughts!!!
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